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4 Date Ideas For Parents When No Babysitter is Available
Finding childcare shouldn’t be difficult, but for most parents is seems impossible. Between cost, scheduling, distance, and the nerve-wracking task of finding someone trustworthy, it’s no wonder date nights often get postponed. But what if you didn’t have to wait for the perfect sitter? Here are four date ideas that let you enjoy quality time with your partner—even when your kids are along for the ride.
What to Pack in Your “Kid Bag”
Be ready for anything with this well-stocked go bag. A single backpack with organized compartments works wonders—especially if you’re toting more than one child.
✔️ Snacks
✔️ Drinks
✔️ Favorite toy, book, or tablet
✔️ Diapers, Pull-ups, or an extra pair of undies
✔️ Wipes and a change of clothes
✔️ Neosporin and Benadryl cream
Bonus Tip: It’s easiest to pack one bookbag with all these things versus having to juggle multiple bags. We love [insert bag recommendation link here] for its multiple pockets and room for two kids’ essentials.
Date Ideas:
1. A Picnic at a Park
Perfect For: Outdoorsy families and sunshine lovers
Set up a blanket while the kids hit the playground. Bring finger foods, fresh fruit, and sparkling cider or mocktails. Everyone gets fresh air—and if you’re lucky, a little peace and quiet.
2. A Paint date
Perfect For: Creative couples (with crafty kids)
Places like Color Me Mine and Painting With a Twist offer pottery painting with kid-friendly options. Staff often help with little ones so you can focus on your own masterpiece. Bring snacks and drinks, make a reservation, and enjoy some relaxing screen-free fun. (Note: The price can vary depending on the items you choose to paint).
3. Play Gyms or Parent’s Night Out Events
Perfect For: Energetic kids and parents who need a break
Kid gyms like My Gym or We Rock the Spectrum often host drop-off events with games, music, and food. Some cost around $40 and are worth every penny. The best part? You get a guilt-free night while your kids have the time of their lives.
4. At-Home Movie Night
Perfect For: Homebodies and bedtime multitaskers
What’s better than being home? No packing, no stress—just get the kids ready for bed early. After bath time, cue up a movie and settle in. Whether it turns into a full date night or a quick nap, you win either way. It may be less about the movie in the end, and we’re not complaining! You’re already home, alone and happy – enjoy yourselves.
Honorable Mention: Matinee Movie with Food Service
Some theaters offer reclining seats and full menus, making daytime showings surprisingly relaxing. Look for family-friendly screenings where your kids can enjoy their snacks while you sip on a mocktail and soak in the dark, cozy atmosphere.
Although having the little ones tag along can come across as not ideal, sometimes trying to find the right time can take too long of a time. Is it the candlelit dinner you imagined? Maybe not. But these moments still count.
Sometimes love looks like laughter on a picnic blanket or sharing popcorn in matching pajamas while the baby monitor hums in the background.
Also, this is a great way to show unity and togetherness to your children. They’re learning that love shows up—that we value the relationships we are blessed with. And that’s a lesson worth teaching.